One of our reader Sharon shared a confession yesterday. She wrote, "I met someone online and developed feelings for him while dating my BF of 2 years whom I have an amazing relationship with and don't know how to cut things off with the other person."
She explains that she doesn't want to end things with her boyfriend because everything has been perfect since they fell in love instantly two years ago. They don't argue, they have daily sex, and he is charming and handsome. So why is she falling for someone else?
She explains that she signed up for "a social app" (she doesn't specify which one) with the intention to make new friends, but stumbled upon a man who looked a lot like her boyfriend. From there, they started talking, and a full-blown emotional affair developed.
While they have never met in person, "We talk every single day and I have grown feelings for him. We exchange pictures and videos and do a lot of sexting as well," she said. "I tried breaking things off a couple of times but I always end up going back to him as soon as he tells me he misses me."
Now she is asking 69figures for advice on how to stop having this affair. Here's what users had to say:
"This post reeks of selfishness. Too selfish to be loyal to your boyfriend, too selfish to stop having an affair, too selfish to let your poor boyfriend go find someone who actually deserves him. You're asking about how to stop yourself from having this affair. To what end? It won't magically turn you into a good girlfriend, or a good person. You won't stop because you have no self control or self awareness." —Bil Obi
"Most people are loyal and faithful. Cut all contact with the other guy. I really don't understand this mindset. 'My boyfriend is the best thing since sliced bread, best sex ever (direct quote from you), he treats me so well. So i better cheat on him.'" — Anonymous
"I've always been extremely against cheating... Don't lie like that. And stop lying to your boyfriend, who is too good for you. Tell him." — Mr Johnson
"Leave your boyfriend. He deserves better." — Sandra
"Block all contact and never contact him again. That will solve this problem now. Going forward, you really need to recognize how selfish your actions are and try to have some empathy for your partner. How would you feel if the roles were reversed? How would you feel knowing that your partner could look you in the eyes everyday and profess their love, only to do the same thing to someone else behind your back? Take a long, hard look in the mirror, and figure out if this is the person that you want to be. Because you aren't being a very good person right now." —engee
"I'm going to try not to sound judgment (I'll probably fail). But you need to make a decision as to what type of person you want to be. You've already cheated. It is what it is. You need to make a decision. Who do you want to be with?" —Runaway83
please readers what do you say to this??
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